Today’s Clown is: Jimmy Hopkins from the game Bully!
game: this weapon has +6 damage and +4 defence from your current weapon
me: but it ugly
i spent the whole summer building up and adding onto my dcu (daydream cinematic universe). it‘s quite extensive now :-)
being weird together is a love language
me, catching myself sharing something i wouldn’t say to just anyone because i wouldn’t want them to think i’m not “normal” with someone i love without any hesitation because i’m not worried they’ll judge me for it: oh… intimacy
it’s not overreacting to want to be treated with respect
It’s not being dramatic if you want to share your feelings
dzsbo asked:
What's 'bierasure'?
writcraft answered:
Techy definition (i.e. pulled from Wikipedia) is: Bisexual erasure or bisexual invisibility is the tendency to ignore, remove, falsify, or reexplain evidence of bisexuality in history, academia, the news media, and other primary sources. In its most extreme form, bisexual erasure can include the belief that bisexuality does not exist.
I’d take that definition and push it further, though. It’s when Hollyoaks ran a storyline where a boy was in love with a girl and a boy and never used the word bisexual, because he had to choose a side. It’s when the tabloids talk about Angelina Jolie’s ‘lesbian phase’, it’s when Cynthia Nixon says, on film, that she prefers to identify as a lesbian because nobody likes bisexuals, it’s when The L Word - so fucking important to so many queer girls - said that bisexuals don’t exist and left no place for us. It’s when papers suggest Miley Cyrus was ‘going through a phase’ and thank goodness she’s married to a man and is straight now. It’s when Anna Paquin had to explain that marrying a man didn’t make her any less bisexual on live television. It’s when I look to queer cinema and find no place for me there, unless I’m the punchline or the person not to be trusted. It’s when I read queer theory and bisexuals are never mentioned unless it’s connected to the spreading of ‘disease’, it’s when I have to sit through lecture from a person archiving LGBT history (pretty big deal) and find Virginia Woolf in the ‘lesbian’ section because ‘they haven’t got round to the bi stuff yet’ and I burst into tears because it fucking hurts.
That’s what bierasure is to me. A small handful of examples, but sadly not the only ones. How does it feel? It hurts. So fucking much.
why do u guys think intrusive thoughts are shit like “hnnhnnnng Ball” its literally like. unwanted thoughts about poisoning dinner guests or killing your children or incest like its not some Fun Haha Relatable Mental Illness feel! its vey stressful and theyre almost impossible to get rid of
In addition to the ones mentioned its also shit like breaking your own bones or gouging your eyes out or weird fucked up sexual shit that you arent into but the thought just comes out of nowhere and you feel disgusted with yourself even though you know you can’t control it and you know rationally you have absolutely no desire to act on these intrusive thoughts but you can’t help but be disgusted with yourself for the intrusive thoughts being there anyways
!!!! Stop referring to the weird but relatively normal thoughts you get as intrusive thoughts. They’re not intrusive and it’s getting to the point where y'all are watering down what intrusive thoughts really are and further alienating people who actually experience them!!!!
patiently waiting for someone to fall in love with me. i refuse 2 date. i refuse 2 flirt or make a move. how could this go wrong.
a big part of growing up is wanting to gather every person you’ve ever been mean to and say “I’m sorry!! It wasn’t worth it!! It wasn’t worth being mean!!! I’m sorry!!!” but you can’t, so just be kind from now on
it’s like… statically impossible for you to have gone your whole life without being unpleasant or rude or hurting someone’s feelings even if it was by accident, even if people were mean to you as well